
Dec 18, 2023, 11:08 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2011
Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I've had intimate dreams about my T before as well. What's really interesting to me is that they tend to have a theme of him coming on to me (sexually and/or romantically) and my rejecting him. Which I'm sure has some sort of significance. Like taking back power, turning the tables. Where he's the vulnerable one (though I imagine he represents others). I've told him about one or two, but didn't go into all the details because he tends to get very visibly uncomfortable with such things (if they're about him--talking about sex in general is fine), and that makes me anxious. He has said though that he doesn't put much stock in dreams.
Putting a warning on this, just in case, as it describes one explicit thing and one gross thing
I did *not* tell him about that one! I may have told him about the beginning part, where he had to run to the ATM in the middle of my session.
For you, I can't know how your T will react if you shared it. It definitely seems like there would be some good themes to discuss, and with your T being psychoanalytical, she'd be more likely to want to examine them with you. You could always share the first part of the dream and leave out the other part about her anatomy if it feels uncomfortable.
Edited to add that I'm a (mostly) heterosexual (married) female and my T is a (presumably) heterosexual male--well, he's married to a woman at least! Though I've had a couple dreams lately about intimacy with random women (not anyone I know), so not sure what that's about either.
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Thank you for sharing this. It has been comforting to know strange dreams about our Ts are quite common. As embarrassing as it is, I think I will need to share the last part of the dream as it is the part I am most confused about. The first time I shared a dream with T, I told her I was embarrassed by it and she said, smiling, "you know this is what I do, right?". So I think she would be okay hearing about this dream.
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