I ask my daughter what to buy for my toddler grandson, most of the time. I think it’s important to follow kids’ guidelines.
We used to buy a lot for our 8 year old granddaughter but she would leave most stuff to play with in our house instead of taking to her own! Then our house was cluttered. We stopped it. We cut it way down. Less is more.
Giving gifts back is a bit much. Kind of hurtful