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Originally Posted by CANDC
@laval4mp welcome to MSF. I am sorry that you are in a relationship that sounds very challenging and you feel obligated to pretend all is well. Have you considered changing your plans for the concert because how easy will it be to be playing music with someone that sounds like they are being abusive?
What about your own self care, are you thinking of getting a therapist or support group to help you cope with this difficult situation?
Things may be slow around the holiday weekend here. Hope you get the support you are looking for.
@CANDC
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i really want to change the concert plans because i hate the idea of being anywhere NEAR my boyfriend but i feel so obligated because i bought tickets for this concert for him and i dont want to betray him by not taking him
im seeing a psychologist in January for many reasons so if needed i can talk to her about this experience but im scared to open up to anyone about this because i feel like my experience is invalid because someone so close to me did it if that makes sense? my best friend does know and is trying to support me through this but its still really hard. thank you for replying i really appreciate it