hey una what you said in another thread about not getting too comfortable in your sinkhole, not decorating it, girrrrrl that's what i did with my resentment towards h. i did much more than just decorate that particular sinkhole. i freakin' burrowed down and hibernated in it. for years. that's probably why I had to keep going back to therapy. And it's also why I finally just had to let.that.****.go. I've kept myself underground for too long and I can't do it anymore.