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Old Dec 24, 2023, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal View Post
hey una what you said in another thread about not getting too comfortable in your sinkhole, not decorating it, girrrrrl that's what i did with my resentment towards h. i did much more than just decorate that particular sinkhole. i freakin' burrowed down and hibernated in it. for years. that's probably why I had to keep going back to therapy. And it's also why I finally just had to let.that.****.go. I've kept myself underground for too long and I can't do it anymore.

Artie, I'd just say not to blame yourself too much for this. As your H helped create that sinkhole, too. To not think it's just your fault for getting into and staying in the sinkhole. It's much more complicated than that. As in, resentment isn't without any sort of reason.
Thanks for this!
ArtieTheSequal