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eskielover · Dec 26, 2023 at 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DeeeSchmeee68

How do I get away from the hurt?

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For me it took totally moving across the country & moving to a place where I knew no one. It took lots of good therapy to process all I had gone through. Also, I was never a person who held onto hurts in the first place when I moved past what had happened. The whole 54 years of my life living around dysfunctional parents & then husband became obvious after I moved & was around functional people & learned through therapy how to live functionally myself. I was so immersed in my new life I didn't have tbe time to stay hurt by my past.

Each person is different, I can't tell you how to get away from the hurt. You can physically remove yourself from it but if you carry it with you, you will still hurt. That is where good therapy could help process the past & help you move on from it