I am sorry to hear about your ordeal. I have been abused all my life so I know how you feel.. I have been in abusive relationships since I can remember, including romantic ones, and it will get worse. Pretty soon, the abused will be under the control of the abuser. What I have learned is: (1) open up about it to your trusted friends and therapist. Most abuses come from those who are close to us., whether physical, psychological or sexual; (2) End the relationship as soon as possible. Otherwise, it will get worse. It is easier said than done but the abuser will not change for the better but always changes for the worse. These are my two words of wisdom from my experience. My advice: throw away the tickets or take someone else.