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Dec 26, 2023, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted by DeeeSchmeee68
This morning, I woke up with the realization that I don't like my children as adults. I thought that by leaving their abusive father(s), they would lead happier lives.
Top that off with my own MI and my inability to communicate with them, I see how much they hold against me. They way they speak to me sometimes (my daughter called me a ****ing pig because I flushed the toilet while she was in the shower) makes me not want to be around them.
I'm told I'm annoying and then I react-respond and make things worse.
No one is willing to seek help so I just keep my distance.
My heart is shut down.
(I have a diagnosis of c-ptsd, MDD and dissociative disorder)
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@DeeeSchmeee68 this is a very difficult situation. Daughters often side with the father and blame the mother for the divorce because daughters often have a better relationship with the father than the mother.
It seems like creating boundaries and respecting them might help. Maybe the fact you are in the bathroom they same time the daughter is is a problem for them. But the level of reaction they had sounds like it is not commensurate with your action. Way over reaction.
The other thing that can be happening is your ex may be fouling the water spreading all kinds of rumors about you to cover up their own inappropriate actions.
Question to ask your therapist if you have one is how can I cope with this situation and work on my own mental health. If you do not have a therapist, maybe it is time to get one.
@CANDC
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