It’s hard. Isn’t it?

Sometimes it is what it is. One of my stepdaughters is infuriating with her life choices. Periodically my husband still advises her on things, it usually ends bad. Even when she asks for advice, she doesn’t like to hear it. When they become adults, there’s little we could do in terms of changing how they do things. We also keep her at arm length because it always ends bad when we don’t.

He’ll find his ways eventually.

I commend you for not enabling him. It’s hard but it does adult kids no good when they are enabled