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Old Mar 02, 2005, 04:53 PM
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Honestly, I think you have to completely cut the guy off. I was in a relationship, not abusive, but this guy breaks up with me for stupid reasons, all the while saying he wanted to be my friend and we could get back together. So, he sent me through all this crap, and I felt so close to the guy b/c I lost my virginity to him. We talked for a while and I got tired of the ups and downs constantly. Him talking to me one day and he won't say a thing to me for a week or two. So the next time he did, I knew I just had to tell him to quit. Either be truthful or leave.

Anyways, it's not about me, this is you. I would see the best option is to leave him, avoid him if you could. Pretend he doesn't exist. It still hurts, but it's better than having him there constantly taunting you. There is always someone better than that. You deserve better.

~Kayleigh
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