Thank you so much everyone for the supportive words and guidance! I never realized it’s not ok for kids to be around him. My kids are 20,18,15,13. I moved out few months ago but haven’t filed for divorce because he promised to work on his anger issues so I thought maybe give him a chance. But just found out about the cocaine issue.
I’m seeing a therapist but like I said this betrayal just hit me. I realized he’s not willing to work on it and just blames me for everything. It’s just so hard. I was trying to live like a separated family, letting kids live in the family home mostly, but don’t know how I can now with this problem.
I’m so lost and broken.