Hi Ya inFocus;

Welcome to PC. Well you have a bit of a problem here with those 2 working on your heart like that. The first thing I can say to you is that you are still very young and have a lot of life in front of you so just slow down a little in the romance department and see if things get better mentally for you.

Self examination is alway good. You have been giving advice and now are asking for it and that is good because then you can get different opinions and evaluate them for yourself.

Sometimes in our life we choose the same kinds of people to be our friends and lovers only to find out that is not what we want.
Changing our minds is a hugh undertaking and it takes a lot of effort. The loss of these two girls is a heavy load that you carry.
You should try to put them out of your mind at least for a few hours and then a few days. You need to progressively release them. The next time she calls, either don't answer or have the phone off ringer if you know when she calls. You answer because you really want to talk to her and hope that she will be kind to you in her words. It doesn't seem to be the way it turns out..

I know that it is going to be hard to change but, you are a young man and you can do it. Let her go before she does more hurt to you. Sometimes people get a kick out of hurting other people's feelings. I think that is what you are experiencing here with this girl.

Have a great day