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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
You do not love him. you care about him because he is the father of your kids, but that he can be from a distance and not living in the same home with them, which will be safer for them, most likely. He is family, but you can treat him as a closed member of your family from a safe distance, too.
Do you have financial means to live on your own / with kids, not with him?
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. Yes I thankfully do and I moved out few months ago. Didn’t even know about this problem then. This is a new revelation. Feels like another blow that I don’t know how to deal with. I building myself. Getting therapy and starting work soon and now this! I don’t know how to handle it all. You tackle one thing and think it’s getting under control and life theories something else at you.
Thank you for you response.