A good source to learn about people who use is Al Anon or open NA meetings. I went to open NA meetings, I learned and eye opening amount about focusing on me and not him. How not to enable him, how to let him deal with the consequences. I just found NA more nonjudgmental. Because you are not a user you can only go to open NA meetings.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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