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Old Dec 30, 2023, 02:16 AM
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Would be interesting to know the commonalities of the previous 2's reasons for leaving & the real reason why your current wife's reason for leaving. IT IS NOT about different taste in music....that is an excuse not a reason.

Knowing this information might give you some insight into your own self & maybe some areas to work on in therapy.

When I left my husband after 33 years I told him why as clearly as I could & he was still clueless & was in the delusion that I would come back within 2 years.

Could be you have an issue with picking the same kinds of women who do this to you or possible you have a trait that pushes women away. I know with my now ex, his financial irresponsibility & emotional immaturity drove me away & I tolerated it for way too long until it destroyed my own mental health. No amount of therapy helped our marriage because what was broken could never be fixed
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