ive stated that we have to pay our cards off before getting a house but she was insistent on trying. my daughter lives with me every other weekend but wants to live with me full time. her mom is a nightmare probably a narcissist. shes very mentaly and emotionaly abusive. she has 3 kids with 3 different dads both of her other kids have left to live with thier dad. my wife wants me out by February. and i only make 60% of my salary on long term disability so its going to be difficult for me to get a place and furniture on what i make. my family i was staying with sadly passed away in 2019 it was my dad. i moved in with him after my 1 st divorce to help him.