Today is New Year’s Eve. It’s a good time for you to celebrate the freedom you finally have to enjoy being you instead of constantly trying to please someone who will never see your true value or even care if you are happy.

I am proud of you for finally seeing how you were giving up yourself to someone who was never going to respect or appreciate you. People like your wife are empty and tend to use others along with alcohol to fill a void in themselves. They don’t see you or anyone instead they just USE and feel entitled. They expect to be serviced and tend to objectify.

If she wants drama and booze and pot or whatever and to use let her have it and it’s ok to stand up and say no to having her live that life on your money.