We put the wedding and some vacations on the cards. We weren't smart with our financial choices. She wants me to sign the papers this week. We have 3 pets together and I'm really close to one of them and shes saying shes not sure yet if shes letting me have her. The cat is very attached to me. I'm seeing a lawyer this week. Shes not being difficult. Shes says she'll give me my daughter's bed from our house and a few other things on the condition that I sign the divorce papers.