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Jan 01, 2024, 08:40 PM
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@meliiz welcome to MSF. I hear you about having a magnetic person for a romantic partner. That can be rough.
It is not easy to be involved with someone and live with the thought that it might not be a permanent relationship. It sounds encouraging that he is rejecting their advances when he is with you.
Find out in subtle ways what he is looking for in a partner. He may be turned off by people treating him like an object. Maybe he is looking for an emotional connection, not just a physical one. Maybe he really wants to be able to talk to someone he is close to.
You may not wiin the game people play to attract a person with physical flirting but maybe you have something else that he finds really attractive. If you can let go and enjoy this relationship without trying to own him, then maybe something deeper and more long lasting is possible.
Those are just some thoughts. Glad you joined the community. @CANDC
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