Don't sign anything until your lawyer reviews the paperwork. You need a divorce agreement to split up the belongings and business you own together. Speak with your lawyer first, and have your lawyer read over the paperwork she wants you to sign. Make sure that you have ownership of all that you own and should own within the divorce agreement. She cannot push or force you to do anything. Don't let her. You should also be taking the cat that is attached to you. It's not up to her to decide. It's up to both of you. It sounds like she is bullying you.