Both of my parents are extremely self absorbed & selfish. My dad is actually a narcissist. My mom only cares about my psycho younger unmedicated bipolar sister.

She pays for all of her stuff like food, gas, clothes, makeup, and more She doesn’t even bother paying for coffee as all her money goes to partying with her friends in Vegas or herself in some way. She’s almost 50 & she lives at home still. She doesn’t pay any tent despite having a job.

She works but she doesn’t earn enough to afford her own place. She has lived at home most of her life. She has used & abused ex boyfriends.

She has a history of committing crime. She has one DUI, one assault charge to where she ended up in jail overnight, one identity thefr crime ( wasn’t convicted, her ex husband did the dirty work & she pretended to not know anything about it), shoplifting, too.

Despite all of that & despite actually having physically assaulting me years ago, she is treated like she can do no wrong. My dad even paid for a leased luxury car for her every year.

She is very manipulative & fake. She tells them what they need & want to hear usually. Especially my mom. They both have huge egos & a constant need for attention & validation, so that is why they do everything for her & nothing for me.

They are proud of her for being successful’ ( For doing covention work tgat they enjoy bragging about to everyone) & outgoing. despite being a user career criminal who has been known to lie about 3 ex boyfriends assaulting her. Three is to many. Hiw nad couk her luck be? lol.

My dad refused to even lend my husband & I money to get health insurance or to help save us from bring evicted. We still owe the IRS a lot of money.

He told me that he didn’t have the money as it went to taxes & that he can only afford to help one daughter at a time. Also he said that since I’m married, I don’t need his help Wth?

Obviously they don’t care about me. I was banned from coming over to my parents house back in 2016 after the psycho decided that she can no longer deceive me & take advantage of me, so she decided to ban me from the house.

She was always very jealous of me. She looked down on me most of my life & would call me names like dork. She pretended to be fake nice a lot whenever she wanted a ride when she was younger or for me to buy her something.

They are all scum, My dad would demand that we let them visit us whenever they felt like in the past. He’d screwm ar me & accuse me of not wanting to see them when I said no. They have no life & hardly any friends. My mom hads no friends.

He was so rude & disrespectful that he once brought over two unruly hyper dogs ended up chasing our cats. I was livid. He was to cheap to put them in a kennel.

My husband didn’t want to stand up to them, so I had to threaten to let the dogs out if they ever did this again. I said they needed to stay in the backyard or they’d need to leave,

So they reluctantly agreed to things. My cats could’ve been killed or hurt!

I banned them from my house a year ago finally. My husband pressed me to get along with them.. He rudely let them come over often too w/o my consent up until I put my foot dowm & said that he needs my consent before inviting them over.

My mom was always a lost cause. She is the biggest nag. They both infantilize me. They both except me to act like an adult but still react to them like I’m still a sweet obedient clueless 5 year old who worships them, ugh!

So weird! They both expect me to always agree with them & they get upset when I end up having a different opinion on anything. My dad once even lied about treating me to dinner if I voted for the person he wanted me to vote for.

My mom has sime extreme paranoid delusional disorder. She thinks the neighbors are always spying on her. She’ll look put the window & claim that they’re spying on her, lol. She is obsessed with other peoples business, lol.

She used to yell at store clerks in the past because she thought they were laughing at her accent.

Also, she’d tell other sales clerks that I’m fat & that I needed to loose weight at 5’4 & 115 pounds . I ended up with low self esteem & years later, bullimia. I was constantly on a diet back then.

She never loved me. She criticized me all the time & asked me why can’t I look or act like this petson? Everyone was always, better, prettier, smarter, more successful & more likeable than I was.

She never listened to me. She’d interrupt me all the time. She constantly talked about her problems with my dad to me & strangers.all the time.

She would also bring up old dates & how men used to wait for hours in the car for her which was inappropriate. She was so inappropriate that she even asked to see my breasts after I got implants put in. She wasn’t joking about that. I said no of course.

My dad would constantly yell at us in public. He’d especially yell at my retarded morher often.

She acts & talks like a young mentally challenged child often. She has her mouth open a lot & she lolks ridiculous. I’m not sure if she is mentally challenged or not, but she sure looks & acts like she is.

My dad on the other hand is supposedly a mensa genius but he acts & looks mentally challenged too.

He often wears dirty bedroom slippers in public along with a stained or rippef sbirt. My mom isn’t as bad, but she doesn’t cut her nails or comb her hair.

They only talk about themselves most of the time. I rarely get asked how I’m doing. If I go on a trip, I’m never asked for pics or how my trip was.

It’s all about them. They lie & said they loved me in the oast, but that was just because they femt like they had to say that, They don’t mean it.

They certainly don’t show it. My dad has a sick obsession with dead ancestors & family members too. He cates about dead people more than the ones who are still here. He is extremely obsessed with how I was as a baby & the past too. I never heard the end of my baby or toddler stories.

My dad tried to boss me around & tell my husband & I how to think, act & what to spend our money on. It’s infuriating!

My mom has no respect for boundaries as I’d tell her to not talk to my husband about my grandma again & yet she’d tell the same petty story agsin & again. My husband enabled her by being to polite to not excuse himself. He was taught to have respect for his elders, even the insane ones.

They never even wished me a Happy Birthday or A Merry Christmas for the last two years. Growing uo, we never got presents as they were cheap & selfush.

I truly despise everyone in my family. I mever once felt loved, appreciated or accepted. I was constantly bullied, disrespected, ignored, dismissed, & gaslighted.

They all knew that I had issues with anxiety & depression but they said it was all in my head. Even when I tried to commit suicide as a teenager, they still didn’t get help for me,

That’s how cluesless & selfish they are. I can’t wait until they all die. Especially my dad.

Thankfully they have finally stopped harassing me with calls, emails & demanding to come visit me all the time. I told them all what I think of them a few uears ago & how crazy, nasty & selfish they all atre.

I crushed their fragile ego to dust, lol. Can anyone else relate to this?

It would’ve made things easier fir me to have had ar keast one sane parent or sibling. I was bullied at school since 11 on top of that too.

No wonder I’m so messed up!

Why do they love my sister & not me? I tried to be nice, I tried to get along with them most of the time & I was constantly criticized & mistreated still.