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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
My ex 2nd husband follows my Yelp reviews (which are numerous but he selects those of interest to him), and has been for years. He follows other activities of mine. But that is legal. It is just creepy and shows that he is obsessed. I do not know if it counts as being stalked, but it counts as being followed online, right? @ Soupe du jour
@ Soupe du jour I would like your salmon tartare recipe. I have a weird taste: I love raw salmon but not raw tuna or other raw fish.
Q: if you eat fish, do you prefer raw, grilled, baked, fried, smoked, or made into soup? |
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Tart Cherry Jam, I think it counts as a mild form of stalking, but hope the harm is reserved to him just looking. With social media, such behavior has become common, and not always harmful. I bet most of us have googled a person of interest, at one point, but continuing to do so would seem too much, in my view.
One of my old therapists (from 6 years ago), still looks at my blog. A few times she's left comments. Other times, I see a "like" from her. I suppose harmless, but unusual. There had been countertransference.[Not sure the exact source.] I experienced transference with her in the past, as she acted and looked a lot like my late mother. Unlike her, I don't look her up. I have, however, contacted my old psychiatrist on rare occasions. He has sometimes responded, but there's nothing concerning about it.
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Salmon Tartare Recipe | Epicurious My husband likes it a lot, too. I always put the salmon in the freezer for about 15 to 20 minutes before cutting. It's easier to cut up that way, and stays chilled for serving. I also prepare all of the other ingredients in the serving bowl first, except the cilantro, before cutting the salmon.Then I mix it in with the cilantro. I believe this a better approach than the recipe's.
I most like salmon raw or cooked (baked, pan cooked, or grilled). I'm not fond of it smoked or as lox, but my husband likes all ways. I enjoy some fish smoked. For example, smoked whiting or trout. I dislike smoked mussels, but enjoy them steamed.
Same question that Tart Cherry Jam posed.