If you do not know anything about disability, no need to make assumptions based on your lack of knowledge. The way you phrased it was not like asking a question but like making an unfounded and clearly erroneous assumption. That is why I reacted. While you know very little about disability, Divine works in the system and provides expert advice and has been doing so, patiently and gently, for months. There was no need for you to question that expert advice coming from a vantage point of no knowledge, as you have just admitted.

We have been discussing these things here, on various threads opened by @jesyka, for a very long time, ad nauseam. @jesyka is one of the most frequent posters on this subforum. I do not know how you have managed to miss that fact. Trying to help her without knowing the backstory, as you did by suggesting that she gain financial independence from her husband, as if that were trivial, goes nowhere but gives you the feeling that you provide empathy and support. That feeling won't pay for the plumber to come and fix the drain.