You are not being unreasonable. But your friend is. Tell her you are not going to read anymore emails from her for a month while you stabilize. Or two weeks if a month is too long. Then follow though with that. Delete all her emails to you without reading them. She can not emotionally manipulate you that way and you are practicing good boundaries.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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