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Originally Posted by divine1966
So true.
There are other bizarre stress inducing situations with families. Just as I was reading on the forum I am getting barrage of crazy messages on a family group text. For whatever crazy reason there are some people on a chat who aren’t even our family per se but are worshipped by my dad. I can’t even. I can write a book. You don’t know what’s better. No contact or this craziness.
Moving on is probably wise. You tried. You did your part. No need to stress out if they aren’t interested. Their loss
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Wow. You are lucky that you’re included on a family group text. How do you respond? Why is your dad so worshipped? Is he the hero role in your family? How does that even happen - friends and neighbors join a family group chat? I would love to read your book. You have a lot of great insights.
Everything I read tells me that I was given my role as the family blacksheep. That it serves a function in dysfunctional family systems.