Do you work? When I worked I often went out with my mates. We had softball teams, volleyball teams, and everyone was invited. I’ve heard there’s meet ups too that you can join. But yeah, you need something outside of him. I don’t know that’s my thinking. My sister and her husband both had people from their own work that they hung out with and somethings that they did together. It seemed like the things they did separately gave them more to talk about. But now they are retired they are content to mostly do things together. Seems kind of awkward going to games and being stared at by his ex, especially as she doesn’t seem to want him back. So yeah I find something else to do when he goes.