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Originally Posted by Nammu
Do you work? When I worked I often went out with my mates. We had softball teams, volleyball teams, and everyone was invited. I’ve heard there’s meet ups too that you can join. But yeah, you need something outside of him. I don’t know that’s my thinking. My sister and her husband both had people from their own work that they hung out with and somethings that they did together. It seemed like the things they did separately gave them more to talk about. But now they are retired they are content to mostly do things together. Seems kind of awkward going to games and being stared at by his ex, especially as she doesn’t seem to want him back. So yeah I find something else to do when he goes.
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Thanks, yeah, I definitely would like to do things outside of our relationship! I moved here recently, so I'm still adjusting a little, but I'm doing better than I was. I'm not working right now, but I have a pre-screening phone interview Monday. I'm applying to work.
I am honestly not entirely sure that she's actually watching me. It's entirely possible that I'm just super self-conscious in this situation. It's just so weird / awkward for me. 😭
He is being very kind about it. He did assure me she's a good person/ not malicious. Maybe I just need to believe in myself more. Who knows what her deal is. But in the end, I know I'd like to focus more on our life together, and find ways to not feel so awkward and self conscious.