i will keep that in mind. i know its a waste of time but i keep trying to think of the right words and actions to fix our marriage. any little thing from my wife gives me hope maybe false hope. like yesterday we hung out all day watching tv because she through her back out. the kids are away so we slept in separate beds. we were both on our phones and she sent me a tik tok of of cats that was cute. i immediately felt a rush of hope.