Investing your energy into a dead marriage is a waste and you should be concentrating on finding a place to live. Get on the lists, yes, but look on Craigslist for people renting out a room.

I had a period in life where I lived in a "rooming house" and it wasn't bad. People stay out of your business, I had a lock on my door in one so I didn't have to worry about my stuff, and in the other house I didn't have a lock but the people whose house I was living in were absolutely trustworthy, as was I. You can also look for a roommate situation.