I’ve struggled mentally these holidays, there’s been a lot going on within my family. Very few people know the full extent, even those I trust I’m careful how much I share so as not to upset them. I identify with what Eskie says, I share the bare facts, not details. Most people close to me know sort of what’s going on but not the distress I’ve been in - although I post anonymously here that I’ve been crying I don’t want to share that depth at this moment with anyone.