I'm sorry, I don't want to get into it, but absolutely YES there was money that was set aside each month for special expenses for one of the kids. It was funded through a government program. My wife took it, and re routed the future payments to herself.

It's been reported through the lawyers and it has to be paid back.

Her health insurance works through reimbursement; you pay, present the receipt, and insurance reimburses you. She has the kids covered on her insurance. But, the reimbursement would go to her account. That was always the issue... If I used her health insurance, she would receive the reimbursement, not me. The question was always, "How can I get the insurance reimbursement?"

The thing is, she is playing it dumb and innocent, as if the question is that I don't know how to submit a claim. "NO. YOU KNOW THAT'S NOT THE ISSUE."
The question is, "Will you direct the insurance reimbursement back to me, and if so, how?"