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Old Jan 08, 2024, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
This is my style and comfort level - more than that to anyone not a lover /family member/long time close friend would be over the top gushing in my world. And I would say it to lover/family/friends on some things.
Also I would find it as comforting as I find others in general. More than that said to me from an acquaintance/ non close friend/family would be over the top insanity as well.

Probably why people here don't find me super warm and fuzzy even when I think I am being smothering

This actually helps to hear, so thank you. I tend to think of what it would mean if I said something, rather than thinking of what someone else might mean by it. Like maybe Dr. T thinks he's being very warm, by his standards, but it feels cold to me. Because I would express it differently. Sort of like how he and I define "love" differently. So maybe this is a good thing to discuss with him.
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