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Originally Posted by RDMercer
OMG!
I laughed out loud at the description of incompetence and high I.Q. 😆. Boy, that's familiar.
Yes, accounts and payments are all looked after now.
It just comes down to her slight manipulation of the truth in the email today; trying to make it look like I didn't know how to submit receipts for remittance, when it's actually me asking since June, "What account is it linked to and how can I get my money back?"
And then me flooding with anger about her spin on my supposed incompetence.
RDM
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Not sure if you are on TikTok, but someone who went through a nasty divorce and custody battle shared old texts with her ex, who was instructed to only communicate via email. She said she started responding to all messages like she's from HR, and not only was it hilarious, her ex increasingly got frustrated and said very stupid things.
I also do this when clients get pissy about paying on time. When they start getting passive aggressive and not answering the question, I'll say something like "Please confirm your intent is to not pay your bill. Thank you."
Believe it or not, that usually gets a change in tone really quick and a direct response to pay right away.
With your ex, when she sends you these responses, I would roll my eyes (you have to expect her to respond with this passive aggressive bureaucracy type responses) and say "Please confirm whether you do or do not intend to send the reimbursement to me once it is posted to your account." or "Please confirm the means by which you will send the reimbursement once it posts."
Maybe you have tried that, but they avoid the question and you just keep restating it, ignoring all the other crap. Drives them crazy, and gets plenty of good evidence as to their mischief.