Ok, it’s good to learn that your wife has to return the funds she took from the account that was set up for your daughter/children.

It is my understanding that the judge ordered that your wife pay child support as the children are living with you and you incurred costs from that.

I think with this medical/insurance challenge you could suggest that your wife have a credit card on file so any medical costs can go on that and reimbursements just go to paying that off which would leave you out of the entire issue of funds being reembursed.

Preparing for this upcoming hearing in March should be about addressing anything that might come up that needs to be financially resolved. So far the court/judge is expecting your wife to work and cover her own expenses and contribute to child support.

This challenge with the insurance coming up now gives you a chance to sort it out so you are prepared to address it in the hearing. I think the credit card on file can prevent conflict.