I'm sorry @ChickenNoodleSoup that you're having to deal with this. As you may or may not recall, I faced this with my ex-T. I won't lie. It's hard. Probably one of the most difficult things I've had to face with someone outside of the family.

It can change the nature of your relationship with them, and however much you try not to let it, once you know the details, you can't un-know them. Then you're potentially into a whole new territory of worrying about them in a way that perhaps you didn't before. So I would respectfully suggest that you have a think about exactly what level of detail you are prepared to deal with (assuming that your T is willing to share).

But you have a good relationship with your T and I'm sure you will work through it together.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that the news isn't as bad as you fear. If you want to pm me, please don't hesitate, but absolutely no pressure on you to do so. If I can help I will.

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