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Default Jan 15, 2024 at 11:05 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Twinmama831 View Post
No suprirsingly he doesnt drink. Hes a former heroin addict clean since 2015. He is diagnosed bipolar.
That explains it all. Sad we don't pay attention to the red flags in the beginning & not go there in the first place.....but you are there.

Can you make a business out of selling your chicken eggs for maybe just a little less than the going rate to build up business. Keep that money in an account (or place) he can't find & save it up until you have some money to get out. You are right....it will not get better unless he wants to change & there is NOTHING you can do to make it happen & there is no real good way to "deal with it" without it destroying you long term

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