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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I feel badly, too, if someone puts me on ignore. It’s happened a few times. Usually I know why…because I said something they didn’t like. I did internalize it, feeling badly that they didn’t like me. But also, I self reflected on that I said something to them that was wrong, obnoxious, triggering. There was a time or two when I had no idea what I had done. I did internalize it feeling badly that they just didn’t like me for some reason. But, as bad as that feels, I suppose that is okay. Not everyone has to like me. I can try to be more kind so not to get put on ignore (online and irl).
Thanks for being brave in bringing up the emotions around this, felineangel.
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I've never put you on ignored - just saying in case anyone thinks i did, I've only put someone else on ignored for a short time after the member in question said something that felt to me like a attack (and it still feels even now like they were attacking me)
but anyways my list has been empty for a while now and I'm not currently using it, I want to switch it off but don't know how to switch ignored list off, don't see anything in my settings for switching my own list off
unless i'm being a dumbarse