It might be a manipulation tactic.

Or might be just how she operates: with the expectation for a man to fix it all. I’ve met plenty of women who’d never take care of anything: broken items, car issues, full up gas, take car to a shop, house projects/paperwork, bank, make a phone call to a maintenance etc etc because somehow they grew up with the expectation that everything is man’s job. Or they might not know how to do things but they don’t want to learn. “Learned helplessness” is so much easier because someone always comes to their rescue.

How will she live her life when you two are divorced? How do single women live? Despicable. It’s 2024 not 1824.

Document everything. Extra document every little thing