OK, I'm in my office and at my desk....

I truly laughed out loud at "at least she's consistent".

People are wondering what's so funny.

EskieLover.... WOW! That is messed up and unbelievably frustrating. And costly!

Something you said rung true with me. I had one psychologist say disordered people have no means to regulate their negative emotions, so they place them on you and make you manage them.

So.... With that in mind.....

Once I am out of her life, and once she has to really, really maintain (contain??) a certain appearance among her new best friends and her new co-workers, and now that she is renting an apartment in someone's home and can't do the ridiculous late night stuff she used to, and she can't treat the new man (men) in her life like crap because they have no history with her and no need to accept her drama......

She must be ready to burst!

These occasional flurries at me are her only way to unload her internal drama and disarray.

RDMercer