When we are totally out of their lives they no longer have us to try to blame for how they act. You are so right about that. His mom blamed me for all the bad things happening to him. I doubt she even knows all the bad crap he has done after I left. He is still leasing back the house for double the monthly payments than the mortgage & sharing the house with others who can pay too. I am sure she doesn't know he lost the house & lives monthly only paying minimum on his credit cards. They can keep things covered up for awhile before it all crumbles in on them. Not my problem but sometimes I don't mind watching after going through all I did getting out of there. I keep watch on both of our credit reports because my name is still on the loan because of the way he sold the house & even if he died my name would still be on it & I never gave him permission to do that. Jerks will be jerks ALL THEIR LIVES. They never seem to learn even when bad stuff happens to them. They just blame everyone else for what happened.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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