Hi felineangel,

I don’t know your history with this friend. Is she someone you met online?

This person is being an emotional vampire. They are flooding you and draining you with their emotional neediness. They don’t respect your boundaries when you ask them to give you some time to respond. This is very abusive behavior.

Is this person also asking you for money?

They are doing very predatory behavior on you, and you are a very kind person who is having difficulty asserting your boundaries. Many other people would block this person and protect themselves. This situation is causing you to SH.