Perspective is also determined by ones situation also. Here in the Atlantic Coast of Canada, living a life of alcohol, partying and activities between the sheets are an extremly common lifestyle amoung people here. And if you can not benefit these people with incentives, you don't see the light of day.

I cannot drink, between ADHD and born an Alcoholic, those two addictive traits not worth venturing down with alcohol.

Partying usually involves drugs and stuff between the sheets. I haven't done drugs since highschool and it was Marijuana. I am asexual.

I have tried in the the last 2 years, attending 5 support groups. Being a male over the age of 25 greatly reduces the options available. Four of the groups had stopped due to lack of people attending. The last one just stopped. These sessions felt, yet again, one sided. I could have just caught the recording on YouTube. The average age for these sessions would have been people in their late forties and was hard to connect with, like a barrier.

Perspective is also understanding others are a variable, which we can never predict or plan fully for. No one is guaranteed a Disney story.

I feel like I can rant and what not but its neither her nor there. And I apologize for coming across argumentative and stop.

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