@PeterPa I am so sorry to hear about the breakup you just went through. That sounds so sad.
You did this in a classy way. You did not fight and squabble about it or get down on your knees to beg for more time. You respected her wish so you can acknowledge how maturely you faced this difficult situation. But it still hurts.
Would you consider a therapist for yourself or a support group for relationships that ended? Another idea is to reinvent your purpose in life. It sounds like you were trying to help her and stand by her. Now the role has changed.
Maybe you could reach out to her by email and ask how she is doing unless that only opens up the wound.
Hope you get the support you are looking for.
CANDC
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