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Originally Posted by eskielover
I would say "fortunate" rather than wasting more time is a "nothing" relationship. I left my marriage after 33 wasted years & wished I had listened to myself earlier & gotten out then.
My starting over is just taking care of my life the way I want it to run & I am not wanting anyone else involved to complicate it. Doing well for 16 years & I have 10+ acres of land I own & am taking care of now. Sometimes life is better with no one else involved at a close level but I had to sort issues out that all those years caused & when I did, being in control of my own life won
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Hello,
Yeah you definitely have a point there. I think if we had just separated completely and not this weird situation that is going on I would feel differently. Hell,at this point a straight answer would be nice... She seems to be less deactivated now but I wonder whether that's just her moving on at this point.
We are going on holiday with friends this week so when i get back i think it's time to put stuff in place to separate. It's not fair that she is getting everything she wants (split + me still being around as a "friend") while i just get hurt everyday. Thank you for your reply!