I had a dream where I was sucking my own breast and T just sort of naturally pointed out I was trying to feed myself instead of take from another which hadn't occurred to me. It makes me think of your interpretation where you felt your T was doing all the pleasuring and you were not giving back.

That's wonderful you were able to tell her and discuss it. I found that once I could work with my T in that way and tell her "everything" that things worked out better/faster.