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Jan 30, 2024, 02:25 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,073
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Thanks everyone. I'm sorry for gloating. I know she's an injured damaged person and deserves empathy too.
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I struggle with this issue too. Their mental illness & damage causes hurt & damage to others who fight back to protect themselves. This ends up putting them in a victim roll in the eyes of some where in reality that victimhood is nothing more than being held accounable for their behavior. Since when does holding someone accountable make us the bad guy? I have never understood why this happens but can see how this leads into the creation of stigmas that are not always undeserved as people tend to want to protect themselves from behaviors they know will hurt them in the future especially after having had a bad experience.
Love what @seesaw said.....the real revenge is moving on & being happy. This is so true
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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