@Supergolfer12 welcome to MSF. I am sorry you are in a relationship that is not what it used to be.
Every relationship I have been in reaches that point where the honeymoon is over and reality sets in. I have tried the leaving strategy and the result was deep regrets for the suffering they experienced.
I have tried the stay under many unfavorable conditions and complained bitterly about that. There is no right way to resolve relationships unless it is to do what your conscience tells you is the right thing.
Another way to go is to accept that you are roommates and begin living your life in more creative ways. If you need to get away how about going on a vaca by yourself or with a friend where you are not going to get roped into another relationship?
Another option is to join a gym or practice yoga or take up painting or creative arts. You are the captain of your fate but sometimes there are reasons in our past that make it difficult to break off a relationship. You are not making any snap decisions. Maybe ask yourself why.
Sometimes there is not a good alternative. That can happen. I think it is better to look in your own mind rather than ask other people for advice, which is really asking them to make the decision.
I think you can use this as an opportunity to reinvent how you see your life. What do you say? Give it a try and do some serious brainstorming. Then rationally decide what is best for you in the long run.
CANDC
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