Your daughter is too young yet to understand the complexities of what is taking place. Your daughter has a right to be angry and to desire accountability from her mother.

All three of your children are angry. They have a right to be angry. What their focus needs to be on right now is to develop and grow as individuals despite the failures of their mother.

You are hurt too and your children can see that. You all have to learn how to go forward in your lives despite how your wife has failed all of you. You all need to find healthier people to connect with and your daughter should be looking for healthy mentor figures.