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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Leave the pieces and walk away. Do not pack your mental bags with pieces that do you no service. Take things one day at a time and commit to learning to heal and focus on your own mental health.
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Open Eyes you have no idea how much this means to me. I am learning to take things one day at a time, sometimes, (especially today, it's been one hour at a time). I have been focusing on my own mental health by cleaning my place and having a safe space, taking a shower, and just resting and reflecting on how blessed how truly in my freedom. Thank you so much for your support.
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Originally Posted by Rive.
Sometimes we can't save the ones we love. However painful it is, we do have to let go because holding on means sacrificing yourself and continuing this cycle of suffering.
You are showing a lot of self-growth in the decision you are making. If you don't choose yourself, you will drown too..
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Rive. I am not going to lie. this process has been really hard. Even though I have pretty much gotten used to him being out of my life, the emotional ties are still there. I have had a self-care/self reflection day and have really come to terms slowly at what is really happening. The longer time goes on, the more healing will come. Today I choose me, and that is the best thing I can do. This act of self-sacrificing has got to end, or I will never be truly free. Thanks so much.