Ladyshadow, when some of the fun threads ended up in my reply feed, it gave me a good feeling. We can go back and look at threads that are years and years old. There have been times where I have thought about returning to some of my previous threads but am now learning to look forward, be in the present, and not go back. IMO, healing and forgiveness go hand in hand--part of that process for me is not to return to old issues where I was hurt by others in the past (I know I have hurt others too). So, for me, I think it is the best not to look at threads about those topics (I am not talking about current, or presently ongoing issues--that is one of the things this forum is for). Wouldn't you all say that many who come here for support are trying to heal from the past?